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Don\'t want to date single moms
Does this make me some kind of villain? I don't get it. I met a woman, talked to her for hours (she is 26) and asked her out. She never once mentioned she had a child. 4 dates later, she mentions her 7 year old daughter. I don't hate kids or anything, but I am at the point in my life where I am looking for a serious relationship, maybe leading to marriage.
I have never wanted children, and don't want to raise somebody else's kid either. Anyway, I told her the truth (as nicely as I could, I liked her but wasn't looking for a relationship with children) and didn't want to take it farther. She acted like I was a jerk. I think she should have mentioned the kid sooner. Friends also tried to fix me up with a mother of 2 kids (different dads) and I said no thanks. They then told me at my age (almost 30) I am most likely not going to meet a woman without kids at this point. They also acted like I was some kind of prick when I said I am not willing to date a single mom. I would like others opinions on this. |
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Re: Don\'t want to date single moms
Single moms need penis too.
That being said, no, not a jerk, especially if you were open and honest about things. She's just bitter because of her life situation, and while it does suck to be in her shoes, that is not your fault. Ray |
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Re: Don\'t want to date single moms
She seriously should have told you sooner.
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Re: Don\'t want to date single moms
Most single women in their mid-late 20s don't have kids. Not sure where your friends are getting their info.
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Re: Don\'t want to date single moms
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Most single women in their mid-late 20s don't have kids. Not sure where your friends are getting their info. [/ QUOTE ] Trailer park? |
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Re: Don\'t want to date single moms
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Most single women in their mid-late 20s don't have kids. Not sure where your friends are getting their info. [/ QUOTE ] I disagree. Of the "single" women. A lot of them have children. |
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Re: Don\'t want to date single moms
How could you think that Brittany is not hot? She is easily a 7 on the OOT scale. That's on TV where everyone looks worse.
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Re: Don\'t want to date single moms
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[ QUOTE ] Most single women in their mid-late 20s don't have kids. Not sure where your friends are getting their info. [/ QUOTE ] I disagree. Of the "single" women. A lot of them have children. [/ QUOTE ] single and mid to late 20's? there's no way that "most single women in their mid-late 20's have kids." absolutely no way. |
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Re: Don\'t want to date single moms
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She seriously should have told you sooner. [/ QUOTE ] |
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Re: Don\'t want to date single moms
Why would you be bad for not wanting to date a single mom?
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