Internet Dating

slim · #1 08-23-2007, 05:07 PM

As some of you have read my other post about my divorce, I can't help but to ask about internet dating. I'm 37 and have not dated in 15 yrs since meeting my wife, so I have no clue. I looked on Lavalife just to see what it's all about and seems like every girl in my age range wants to find their "soul mate" and wants to have kids. So my question to those who internet date regualarly......actually I have 2 questions:

1) Do the chicks normally look a lot uglier in person? I assume they post their best pics
2) How do you reject them nicely? If I go out on a date, chances are I won't be interested. How do you reject them nicely? If they ask, can I call you or can I email you, how can you say no?

slim · #2 08-23-2007, 05:08 PM

and please tell me anything else that I might want to know about internet dating. Remember, I am interested in women between 28-35.

ncboiler · #3 08-23-2007, 07:58 PM

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and please tell me anything else that I might want to know about internet dating. Remember, I am interested in women between 28-35.

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Many of them are married and only want to [censored]. Many of them are deranged.

slim · #4 08-23-2007, 08:05 PM

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and please tell me anything else that I might want to know about internet dating. Remember, I am interested in women between 28-35.

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Many of them are married and only want to [censored]. Many of them are deranged.

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i was afraid of that....
my worse fear is they trick me into having their baby saying they are on the pill when they are not.

maxtower · #5 08-23-2007, 08:07 PM

Yeah, you have to wear a rubber if you are going to mess around with an iGine. It would take a long time to learn who she really is.

Bork · #6 08-23-2007, 08:08 PM

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i was afraid of that....
my worse fear is they trick me into having their baby saying they are on the pill when they are not.

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This one is easily avoided by taking measures beyond trusting some new woman's word.

ncboiler · #7 08-23-2007, 08:08 PM

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i was afraid of that....
my worse fear is they trick me into having their baby saying they are on the pill when they are not.

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This one is easily avoided by taking measures beyond trusting some new woman's word.

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They can't get preggo if you leave it on their face.

GreaseTrap · #8 08-23-2007, 11:45 PM

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Many of them are married and only want to [censored].

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Are you looking for married women in your searches, or are these women claiming to be single but are really married?

ncboiler · #9 08-23-2007, 11:48 PM

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Are you looking for married women in your searches?

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Um.....They don't typically list that in their profile. Am I being leveled here?

GreaseTrap · #10 08-23-2007, 11:51 PM

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Um.....They don't typically list that in their profile. Am I being leveled here?

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What I'm asking is whether these women are claiming to be single when they're not. I didn't know they don't list that type of stuff as I have never used online dating services before.