Did I miss out on this chick?

pergesu · #1 08-15-2007, 04:57 AM

First of all no pictures, since (as you'll see) I never thought to take them. If that disappoints you too much, turn away now.

I'm basically horrible at understanding when chicks show interest in me. They'll do stuff that's "obvious" to them, but is so [censored] subtle so as to be unnoticeable.

So today I'm walking back from a lunch meeting that went really really well. I was kind of on cloud nine all zoned out. On the way back to work there were a bunch of college students pimping Children International. There was a group of three chicks standing with their little clipboards, and I was about 12 feet away when I made eye contact with one.

I looked at her suspiciously because I knew she'd come up and try to get me to donate (to CI, not sperm. Though maybe sperm. Who knows). She gave me the same look back and we both kind of smirked as I got closer, like, "game on bitches." In the sense that she was going to try to part me with my moderately hard earned money.

Before she could say anything I said, "it's great what you're doing, but I have to get back to work." She asked where I work, I told her a couple blocks away she could escort me. She walked about half a block with me asking stuff about what I do, where I'm from, then says, "well I won't walk you the whole way, but I'd love to tell you all about this if you ever have more time." I say thanks, have a good one, and keep walking.

Didn't really think anything of it, as I said I was zoned out. When I got closer to work I thought about it a bit more...she knew right off the bat I knew what was going on (with her asking for donations), that I wasn't interested, and she still walked and talked to me for a bit. Then there's that bit about "well I'd love to tell you more..." which could have just been an easy excuse to hang out.

Obv response is to abruptly stop and say, "Hrm. I'd love to say that's intriguing because you work for a humanitarian organization that helps children, but really it's just that cute hat" and tug on her (admittedly very cool) hat.

Grr. This was supposed to be a lot shorter. Anyway do you guys think this chick was showing any interest in me, other than trying to get donations for CI? This kind of stuff happens to me periodically and I never have any clue until it's far too late.

edfurlong · #2 08-15-2007, 04:59 AM

I am a hideous shrew of a man and these chicks would probably eat out my ass to get me to sign the form.

tarheeljks · #3 08-15-2007, 05:02 AM

even if she did follow you only to beg for $, it was as good of an opportunity as any to get a number

garcia1000 · #4 08-15-2007, 05:10 AM

One way I have found to tell if girls are interested in you is that their nipples become hard.
You should check for this whenever you think a girl likes you.

eof · #5 08-15-2007, 12:27 PM

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One way I have found to tell if girls are interested in you is that their nipples become hard.
You should check for this whenever you think a girl likes you.

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yeah i always check

tuq · #6 08-15-2007, 12:31 PM

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I am a hideous shrew of a man and these chicks would probably eat out my ass to get me to sign the form.

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I don't know which is more impressive, your response or the fact that you read his post and made it two minutes after his OP. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

Also, I agree. Goddamn my mind is cluttered with all the nonsense flirting chicks have thrown my way over the years (some way out of my league, like the super hot beer and booze reps at bars) just to get me to give them money or buy something. Of course bison is right, might as well take a shot to find out how genuine it was...

MicroBob · #7 08-15-2007, 12:39 PM

This chick was almost certainly not into OP.

I suspect that her friendly/following strategy has had occasional success at getting some of the "sorry, don't have the time right now" type people to eventually stop and say "okay, since you're super-duper nice I guess I'll do it."

But if OP wanted to give it a shot and show some game then something COULD have happened.
Just because the girl isn't really into him doesn't mean the guy can't change that reasonably quickly.

nutsflopper · #8 08-15-2007, 05:03 AM

Idiot, you wouldn't post this if you didn't know that she pretty much told you to ask her out. And no the correct play is not that bs about a cute hat (wtf) the play is "yea i'll tell you more over a drink tonight but I gotta go, whats your #?"

pergesu · #9 08-15-2007, 05:17 AM

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And no the correct play is not that bs about a cute hat (wtf) the play is "yea i'll tell you more over a drink tonight but I gotta go, whats your #?"

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Well yeah that comes next of course, but I pwn you by working a neg hit and kino in one slick PUA moment

nutsflopper · #10 08-15-2007, 05:21 AM

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And no the correct play is not that bs about a cute hat (wtf) the play is "yea i'll tell you more over a drink tonight but I gotta go, whats your #?"

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Well yeah that comes next of course, but I pwn you by working a neg hit and kino in one slick PUA moment

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HU4hoes?