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Pimp My Game OOT
I'll be going off to college next year, and the last thing I want to worry about is my Game. I've improved a lot over the last year, but I still have plenty of weaknesses to fix before college starts. Thus, I'm turning to OOT for help to solve these issues.
Background; My female friends say I'm "very cute." I'm 5'9 175lbs at around 10% body fat. I don't look like a professional body builder or anything, but I'm fairly muscular. I'm blonde hair (mid length) and blue eyes. I have a good sense of humor and can get people to laugh, but I'm not incredibly witty. I'm intelligent (1450 SAT, etc.) but not Stephen Hawking. I probably come across as very confident or maybe slightly arrogant. I wouldn't say I'm extroverted or introverted really... I don't mind hanging out in groups, but with a girl I'd rather it be one on one. I'm a decent guitarist and a decent songwriter. Still, I find girls really like this. I used to be too much of a nice guy. I still act this way around my girl friends (who I have no sexual interest in), but have stopped this around girls I'm interested in. . This has worked very well for me. With a little refinement, I'll have this down perfectly, but I've got the basic idea right. I've never randomly approached a girl and asked her out. Usually the girls I meet are friends of female friends I have. Through experience, I have found that I have the most success at smaller parties (15-25 people) where I find a cute girl and talk to her one on one most of the night, get her number, and take it from there. So I probably have some sort of approach anxiety with strangers. Around girls at a friend's party, this is not an issue. I'm also not super witty or anything, so it takes a little bit of conversing for me to establish myself as interesting and worthwhile. The way I dress is something I could maybe improve upon. I typically wear jeans and a decent (like nautica or something) polo that matches well. I'm not very creative in this department, and feel like this may be an area where I am lacking. The other area I need to improve is in making moves. I have only been shot down once in my life, but I still don't make a move until I'm 100% certain in my read. The other problem I have is that I'm not great at reading girls. I have a hard time deciding whether I'm falling into the friend zone or not. The result is too many missed opportunities with girls that like me. For the record, I'm more of a relationship kind of guy. I've had random hookups, but they're really not for me. OOT, Pimp My Game in the following areas; Approaching random girls (I'm planning on buying The Game) Becoming a little more witty A little variety in how I dress? Reading girls Anything else? |
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Re: Pimp My Game OOT
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Anything else? [/ QUOTE ] Try harder. |
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Re: Pimp My Game OOT
college = beer/vodka/punch/whatever = success!
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Re: Pimp My Game OOT
PM goofyballer for private PUA lessons
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ya y dont u add a few more paragraphs in there, reading that many words makes my head hurts
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If I was a girl I'd do you.
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so you're asking the internet to make you good at getting girls, right? this never ceases to amuse me when people do this
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The other area I need to improve is in making moves. I have only been shot down once in my life, but I still don't make a move until I'm 100% certain in my read. [/ QUOTE ] I think you're not trying hard enough. I think of it like a major leaguer's batting average: Failing 3 out of ten times makes you a good hitter. It's college you'll meet tons of girls (especially when you turn 21.) Also, I think the only reason I posted this is because I thought that batting average analogy was not worth deletion. |
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Re: Pimp My Game OOT
roxxo thats a good point man... i sorta skimmed his post didnt notice that part.
who gets more girls: guy A: approaches and succeeds with a 95% success rate (and plays it safe in that regard)... however on average only does approaches once every 3 months. guy B: approach and succeeds with a 20% success rate... however approaches 10 girls a week. even if guy A is 10x better with women than guy B, guy B is gonna get more hot girls. Its just numbers. Funny thing is, if guy B started off worse than guy A, it doesnt last for long..... its like who becomes better at postflop play in poker: the 9/2 set mining nit (thats you right now), or the 45/40/3 laggy bastard who splashes around constantly. |
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Re: Pimp My Game OOT
I think this is the only poker analogy I've read that didn't send me forum tilt.
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