Moving in together

unbluffable · #1 05-26-2007, 01:54 PM

I am 20 years old, and after a few years living in a fraternity i got my own place in the Dominican. I have offered a girl that i like (we've been best friends since childhood, much mutual sexual energy, have made out but no sex yet) to come live with me. At first it seemed like no big deal, but now im thinking about how this will change my life. So i am asking the more experienced posters to share their experiences with living (non married) with women. How has your life changed? would you prefer to be on ur own? any and all info is appreciated.

rkd

XXXNoahXXX · #2 05-26-2007, 02:01 PM

Didn't you move there like 5 days ago?

Wasn't your plan to bang tons of locals?

I'm assuming she won't like you bringing hookers home?

This seems like the worst thing you could have possibly done.

unbluffable · #3 05-26-2007, 02:11 PM

well

i've already banged 4 or 5 and frankly they're nice but i wouldn't live with one

she is all i care about. i don't have another friend like that.

she is down for threesomes

XXXNoahXXX · #4 05-26-2007, 02:21 PM

ok...

well since nobody is going to have a situation that is even close to yours, theyre not really going to be able to help.

this probably belongs in OOT.

then again, you'd probably get a * for posting it.

so maybe it doesn't belong anywhere.

unbluffable · #5 05-26-2007, 02:23 PM

well i think its a good topic of conversation. i would imagine my life is gonna change a lot in the next 2 weeks and i wanna generate a discussion about it.

what was your experience like, you live with your gf right

unbluffable · #6 05-26-2007, 02:24 PM

i care about our relationship more than i care about sex with dominican women.

she is pretty open minded fwiw.

XXXNoahXXX · #7 05-26-2007, 02:31 PM

Yeah, I live with my girlfriend. We dated in college for a while before moving in. We were both going to to grad school in the same city, sat down and had a long discussion, and decided that we were ready to live together since we were in a long-term committed relationship.

This is probably the same for most people on here that live with a gf. Not many invite a girl they have sexual feelings for but only made out to a foreign country where they may be down for hooker threesomes.

I'm pretty sure if I suggested a threesome my girlfriend would laugh in my face.

Kjell201 · #8 05-27-2007, 07:23 AM

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she is down for threesomes

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If this doesn't settle it, I don't know what does.

unbluffable · #9 05-27-2007, 07:25 AM

btw, nobody asked for pics

this is definitely no BBV4L or even OOT

unfoldable · #10 05-27-2007, 07:42 AM

Ok, experiences:
First: dont underestimate how smart russian woman are. The ones i met are very down to earth and can handle very difficult situations. And yes, they are open minded. Often times, any place is better than the one they are coming from, which means for you: practice safer sex, cause you dont want a child, do you?
For the moving in: there are some experiences you dont have to make yourself and some that you must do. If you want to know how its like to have a relationship - go for it. Worst thing that can happen is ..., well, what is it? Imagine your worst possible outcome and try to find out if you could deal with it. She is moving to your place, so that is a good thing. Never move to her place, because women are very territorial. It rarely works out this way.
To be honest, i dont think your relationship with her will work out well, you are too young, but try it anyway. The hookers will always be there.