Friend a possible thief, HELP!

testaaja · #1 04-23-2007, 04:14 AM

WARNING: This post probably makes no sense to anyone who reads it. I'm bad at writing.

So, we were drinking at place P and obv I get black out drunk because I didn't eat anything that day. I had 2 bottles of vodka and some beer with me. I drink like 6 beers and totally remember this, I didn't drink more beers. I also know because 2 of my friends confirm I didn't even finish my first bottle of vodka
I totally understand if the opened bottle is drank, standard. Standard if beer is drank and someone says he drank a few but EVERYONE HAD TOO MUCH OF THEIR OWN [censored] WITH.

The issue here is not the booze, I'm just on the edge if I should ever trust this guy again. I got plenty of booze.
OOT HELP ME!

Morning:
-Wake up, see irc-> friend says he found LIQUOR bottle empty, viru valge vodka empty (mine was this brand) he also had this and empty beer cans.

-Hangovered, can't drive yet, let's wait till 1200.

-I call him and he says "come in 30minutes", he lives like 10meters from place P.

-I get there. Open fridge and the pack I brought my beer and put them in the fridge is gone. Beers are fitted nicely in there. 4 left wtf, I had atleast 16 with me.

-He hands out a bottle of vodka, it's ½ empty. I'm like "wtf", he says someone must've drank it.
--> I think, okay maybe and drive home. --> Start asking everyone but no one knows about it.

At this point I'm like what the [censored]. My douche friend says he found EMPTY bottle at the floor in the morning. I'm 100% sure no one could have ever drank it because everyone was super drunk when I left.

-2 of my friends say they left my bottle UNOPENED on the table. They say it wasn't opened. They would tell me if it was opened.

-I start berating my douche-friend about this and he doesn't get mad at all. He stays cool. This is in the internetzs. I would totally get angry if my friend accused me of stealing his bottle. He just claims and claims he found it empty on the floor. At this point I start looking at the bottle for a serial number because I have a crop of these. Nope, no serial number but I look at the corks and..

Left is the new version of the cork, right is the old. I got new he has old.

I just accuse him indirect of stealing it. He says he can give me a new one-- what the [censored]? This is really fishy. I just let it be because I'm pretty sure he took it now.

-He sms me and says his grandmother got angry (their appartment) and emptied the bottle into sewer, adding he's not a 'booze thief' and that he can give me a new bottle. -- I'm like yeeeah right. There was MORE THAN ONLY THIS BOTTLE why didn't she empty them all.

For now I let it be.

Today I start digging around again. See that he said he fount empty bottle of LIQUOR there that day. Now comes the best part: I saw the LIQUOR bottle half empty on the desk when I went to get my stuff. Evidence is overwhelming now. What should I do OOT? Atleast to me it seems totally like he stole the bottle.

Cliff notes: Bottle is gone, friend claims it was empty. Then says his gm emptied it but evidence is overwhelming otherwise.

Sorry about the boring and long text.

Evan · #2 04-23-2007, 04:21 AM

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testaaja · #3 04-23-2007, 04:21 AM

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That's what I thought [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] sorry. But if someone can bear reading it through and giving me feedback it would be really good help.

kyleb · #4 04-23-2007, 05:37 AM

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CardSharpCook · #5 04-23-2007, 05:56 AM

wow. This post is pretty unreadable. The most confusing part about it is that you seem to single out one of your friends and accuse him of drinking, what, a bottle and a half of Vodka??? Ok, if he did, I garauntee he was drunk enough after the first 8oz to not really be that respsonsible for going thru the rest. But WHY WOULDN"T YOU JUST ASSUME THAT A NUMBER OF RANDOM FRIENDS EACH HAD SOME AMOUNT???? Dude, it is a party. Liquor gets drunk at parties. I can't beleive how horribly you acted in accusing this guy!!!

really.

Are you serious?

This is so SAD!!! Apologize for being a douche and accusing your friend of theft. This is so pathetic. And you're wondering if you "can trust him anymore" because someone drank your booze when a bunch of people were drunk and looking to get drunker with your bottle of Vodka hanging out all by its lonesome.

CardSharpCook · #6 04-23-2007, 05:57 AM

This is so absurd.

CardSharpCook · #7 04-23-2007, 05:58 AM

Oh by the way, "my grandma poured it out" could very reasonably be something someone might say to defuse a rediculous situation like this. Yeah, it's probably a lie, but not a lie to cover up theft, a lie to shut up your absurdities. I hope you realize quickly how shamefully you've acted in this situation.

testaaja · #8 04-23-2007, 05:58 AM

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wow. This post is pretty unreadable. The most confusing part about it is that you seem to single out one of your friends and accuse him of drinking, what, a bottle and a half of Vodka??? Ok, if he did, I garauntee he was drunk enough after the first 8oz to not really be that respsonsible for going thru the rest. But WHY WOULDN"T YOU JUST ASSUME THAT A NUMBER OF RANDOM FRIENDS EACH HAD SOME AMOUNT???? Dude, it is a party. Liquor gets drunk at parties. I can't beleive how horribly you acted in accusing this guy!!!

really.

Are you serious?

This is so SAD!!! Apologize for being a douche and accusing your friend of theft. This is so pathetic. And you're wondering if you "can trust him anymore" because someone drank your booze when a bunch of people were drunk and looking to get drunker with your bottle of Vodka hanging out all by its lonesome.

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Hah I'm not trying to explain it anymore because it seems that nobody gets what I'm trying to say. Whatever [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
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Dude, it is a party

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and it's not a [censored] party okay sheesh.

stinkypete · #9 04-23-2007, 06:16 AM

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agreed. please repost in finnish.

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The most confusing part about it is that you seem to single out one of your friends and accuse him of drinking, what, a bottle and a half of Vodka??? Ok, if he did, I garauntee he was drunk enough after the first 8oz to not really be that respsonsible for going thru the rest. But WHY WOULDN"T YOU JUST ASSUME THAT A NUMBER OF RANDOM FRIENDS EACH HAD SOME AMOUNT???? Dude, it is a party. Liquor gets drunk at parties. I can't beleive how horribly you acted in accusing this guy!!!

really.

Are you serious?

This is so SAD!!! Apologize for being a douche and accusing your friend of theft. This is so pathetic. And you're wondering if you "can trust him anymore" because someone drank your booze when a bunch of people were drunk and looking to get drunker with your bottle of Vodka hanging out all by its lonesome.

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please do not ridicule when you do not understand the culture or the social mechanics at work.

OP, asking americanos for advice on this is not a good idea.

adsman · #10 04-23-2007, 06:20 AM

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There is German BBV you know....

...and by the way, I'm not an American, I live in Europe.

...and I'm pretty sure that all OP's friends drank this together so that they could laugh at him behind his back for being such a general all round douche.