inviting dead money

[ShipitFMA]

was just wondering whether when you guys play home games you invite 'dead money' so to speak to the game even if they aren't very plesant to hang out with.

Or would you rather just play a chilled game with your closer mates?

[pfapfap]

I know plenty of agreeable people who are more than happy to give me their money. I don't play in games with annoying people, no matter how bad they are. I like to have a good time, but maybe I'm weird that way.

[Ben_Grimm]

Im the same way. I may even be dead money a little bit. When I play with my friends its a social event. No point in ruining everyones good time just to make a few bucks. But your motivation for playing may be different. If you are in fact playing to make money than Id say get the worst players you can find no matter how annoying they may be.

-Grimm

[Lottery Larry]

You do this on a regular basis, your game isn't destined to last for long most likely... unless you have a lot of dead money players AND the regulars are just like you and willing to put up with the recycling a-holes.

[CardSharkGames]

If someone was picking fights or just ranting the whole time so that nobody else could talk, then yeah, I would probably opt him out, but just run-of-the-mill annoying?

Even if you someone is *frequently* annoying, once you start down the road of banning such people, where do you draw the line? Everyone can be annoying at times. (Maybe I'm just afraid that *I* would be the next to be banned...)

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Even if you someone is *frequently* annoying, once you start down the road of banning such people, where do you draw the line?

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You draw the line where you're comfortable and assess on a case by case basis. Nothing in this world is black & white. It's not really a matter of banning, it's a matter of not inviting the person back.

If you fear you're one of the annoying people, pay attention to how people are reacting to you. If you have aspergers (assburgers!), be extra special mindful. If you're a consistent winner and are still getting invited back, you're probably not one of the annoying people.

[i am run]

no new players ever want to sit in my weekly home game.. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[Small Fry]

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no new players ever want to sit in my weekly home game.. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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Really? What, when and where is the game?

[CardSharkGames]

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Even if you someone is *frequently* annoying, once you start down the road of banning such people, where do you draw the line?

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You draw the line where you're comfortable and assess on a case by case basis. Nothing in this world is black & white. It's not really a matter of banning, it's a matter of not inviting the person back.


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There's a guy in our regular game who just irritates the bejesus out of me. He is extremely loud, talks non-stop about how brilliantly he is playing (he can't just fold, he has to tell you how smart he is to fold), and lectures other players with incorrect info. In short, he's a blowhard.

I was talking to one of our other players yesterday and he happened to mention having run into the other guy somewhere and what a nice guy he is.

Clearly, what bothers one person doesn't necessarily bother others, which is why I wouldn't start banning people (or quit inviting them -- I don't see the distinction).

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For sure for sure people have different impressions. If you're at someone else's game and another player is annoying you to the point of preventing you from returning, you should mention it to the host. Maybe there have been other complaints, maybe you're the only one. But when I'm inviting people to my home, I don't care if others are in love with someone, I don't want a-holes in my personal space. Keeping them out is lifetime +EV.