Dancing at Parties/Clubs

[Awesemo]

We've all been at the type of party where most of the girls are dancing in groups amongst themselves. Usually, they are parties where not many people know each other. These girls are here to meet guys, but not any guys: hot guys. How do you convey to a girl that you're an attractive man by dancing?

There are several elements to this situation. The first element is the initial contact. Do you go up to a girl and ask her if she would like to dance, or do you go up to them and start dancing.

The second element and probably the hardest one is the actual dancing technique. How can you get really good at grinding? A man is supposed to lead in a dance, how does this happen while grinding? What techniques should you use?

The third element is isolating the girl so you can proceed how you want to. Once you're off the dance floor, should you just try to have stimulating conversation? Would you use an "opener" like we've discussed in terms of myspace to break the ice?

I feel like at any college, taking advantage of this situation is a really good way to get action. I'm really clueless how to be effective in this situation, it doesn't come naturally to me. How can you make a girl perceive you as an attractive guy from dancing?

[billygrippo]

drink a whole bunch, move out to the middle of the dance floor and start grinding every girl in sight at 2x speed of the music.

[Brainwalter]

Looks like you're doing OK to me.

[slickpoppa]

1. get drunk
2. go out on dance floor
3. go up to an attractive girl and start dancing near her
4. if she doesn't move away, just start grinding on her
5. if she moves away, find another girl
6. repeat until successful

[Evan]

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1. get drunk
2. go out on dance floor
3. go up to an attractive girl and start dancing near her
4. if she doesn't move away, just start grinding on her
5. if she moves away, find another girl
6. repeat until successful

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For some reason step 4 really made me laugh. All joking aside, this process will probably get you laid relatively often.

[meleader2]

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1. get drunk
2. go out on dance floor
3. go up to an attractive girl and start dancing near her
4. if she doesn't move away, just start grinding on her
5. if she moves away, find another girl
6. repeat until successful

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For some reason step 4 really made me laugh. All joking aside, this process will probably get you laid relatively often.

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don't forget the key ingredient: making out! kiss her after a couple minutes, but don't go right in. kind of work your way up to it by moving ur face next to her's kind of like ur smelling her hair. if she responds OK, then go ahead and kiss her, close lipped first. if she resonds OK, go all out. also, if u get the feeling she does NOT want to kiss/ur uncomfortable with doing that then whisper [censored] in her ear such as the following:

"you're really hot"
"i really want to kiss you"
"i can't believe how attractive you are"
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really let her have it with compliments! after the dance do NOT leave her side. if you have to get a drink, MAKE HER GO WITH YOU, otherwise (this is usually the case with club situations) her friends/other guys will easily 80% of the time make a cockblock move.

[astroglide]

meleader2,

when was the last time you had an original thought or feeling when it came to dealing with the opposite sex?

[Yeti]

hey astro,

so, the colour yellow. PRETTY AMAZING, HUH?

[Hopey]

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meleader2,

when was the last time you had an original thought or feeling when it came to dealing with the opposite sex?

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Don't be too hard on him. Women aren't really his thing: Ugh

[meleader2]

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meleader2,

when was the last time you had an original thought or feeling when it came to dealing with the opposite sex?

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not since i realized they're all [censored]. treat them the way they should be.