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Old 05-07-2007, 04:17 PM
Peter Harris Peter Harris is offline
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Default US: \"appreciate it\". You don\'t, right?

When i was over in Houston, a frequent response to anything was "appreciate it". We were also asked "how yall doing today?" several times an hour. Heard people say "so good to see you!".

How much of this is false? I mean, whilst it's good to say it, i can't help but think more than 50% of the time, the speaker didn't appreciate anything, nor did those people actually care how we were doing that day.

What's better for a society - being asked and no-one caring, or being asked infrequently but it actually mattering?

Just wondering as it seems like quite a US/Non-US divide to be asked so much and feeling it meant so little.
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Old 05-07-2007, 04:19 PM
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Default Re: US: \"appreciate it\". You don\'t, right?

Yeah, you sound like a typical European.
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Old 05-07-2007, 04:20 PM
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Default Re: US: \"appreciate it\". You don\'t, right?

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Yeah, you sound like a typical European.

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i could speak french in a derisive fashion if it helps [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

Yeah, i was just wondering. There's only so many times i can here "preciate it" in a declining intonation before i thought "no you don't"...
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Old 05-07-2007, 04:21 PM
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Welcome to Costco, I love you
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Old 05-07-2007, 04:22 PM
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Default Re: US: \"appreciate it\". You don\'t, right?

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Welcome to Costco, I love you

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that was crazy too. Asda here is now owned by Walmart and they have welcomers here too and people look at them like they are from Mars. Like i'm going to buy more since someone said hello to me on the way in...
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Old 05-07-2007, 04:22 PM
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Default Re: US: \"appreciate it\". You don\'t, right?

better for all of humanity if we all put a facade that we are perfect,caring people at all hours of the day.
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Old 05-07-2007, 04:23 PM
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Default Re: US: \"appreciate it\". You don\'t, right?

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better for all of humanity if we all put a facade that we are perfect,caring people at all hours of the day.

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and eventually no-one will feel anything genuine, right?

EDIT: i guess the english equivalent is our massive overuse of "Please" and "Thankyou" - you'll here it about 4/5 times in an average transaction. So it's not entirely an American issue, i do concede [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
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Old 05-07-2007, 04:24 PM
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Default Re: US: \"appreciate it\". You don\'t, right?

Can you give some examples in how this was used?
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Old 05-07-2007, 04:33 PM
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better for all of humanity if we all put a facade that we are perfect,caring people at all hours of the day.

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and eventually no-one will feel anything genuine, right?

EDIT: i guess the english equivalent is our massive overuse of "Please" and "Thankyou" - you'll here it about 4/5 times in an average transaction. So it's not entirely an American issue, i do concede [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

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who won the french elections again?
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Old 05-07-2007, 04:35 PM
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Default Re: US: \"appreciate it\". You don\'t, right?

Can't believe people are complaining when people are being nice.

You'd rather people just give you blank stare and punch you in the face?
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