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serious post: My really good friends brother just commited suicide
I have no clue what to say. This is so [censored] up, she found out this morning and I just found out about it a few hours ago. He was 25, her oldest brother. I really don't know what to do or what to say to her. Any advice is appreciated. thanks.
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Re: serious post: My really good friends brother just commited suicide
Unfortunately I've been in this type of situation too many times. You're best thing to do is just be there for your friend. I've seen people deal with this in many different ways... Getting hammered, Beating the [censored] out of something, Crying, Keeping it inside. I'd do my best to keep her away from the booze over the next few months though... A friend of mine committed suicide last spring, and about 6 weeks ago his sister finally became a drunken wreck and lost it... She was civilly committed to an institution and just recently got out. Let me know if there's anything I can help you with.
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Re: serious post: My really good friends brother just commited suicide
I don't know if there is anything you can do or say for her. Just... be there.
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Re: serious post: My really good friends brother just commited suicide
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I don't know if there is anything you can do or say for her. Just... be there. [/ QUOTE ] qft |
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Re: serious post: My really good friends brother just commited suicide
That sucks, just be there for your friend.
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Re: serious post: My really good friends brother just commited suicide
Part of my struggles with the fact that she is like the sweetest nicest girl I know and all of a sudden this happens. The other part of me is angry because I don't understand suicide at all, I mean my biggest fear is death, I just have never understood why someone would do it to themselves. [censored]
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Re: serious post: My really good friends brother just commited suicide
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Part of my struggles with the fact that she is like the sweetest nicest girl I know and all of a sudden this happens. The other part of me is angry because I don't understand suicide at all, I mean my biggest fear is death, I just have never understood why someone would do it to themselves. [censored] [/ QUOTE ] I feel you here, but do the nath thing with a healthy dose of stfu. |
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Re: serious post: My really good friends brother just commited suicide
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Part of my struggles with the fact that she is like the sweetest nicest girl I know and all of a sudden this happens. The other part of me is angry because I don't understand suicide at all, I mean my biggest fear is death, I just have never understood why someone would do it to themselves. [censored] [/ QUOTE ] google some stuff about suicide, I had to research some data for a paper once, found a lot of disturbing message boards/web sites by people who use the internet as their only means of expression/communicating their feelings. at least for me, I sympathize with them, because its tough to really understand what they are going through internally. |
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Re: serious post: My really good friends brother just commited suicide
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I don't know if there is anything you can do or say for her. Just... be there. [/ QUOTE ] |
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Re: serious post: My really good friends brother just commited suicide
This is very sad. COndolences to your friend. Be there for her and be sure to let her talk it out.
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