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Open relationships
Just wanted to know if anyone was involved seriously with someone and it was an open relationship, meaning you are allowed to hook up with others as long as you let them know, but there was one specific person that was your gf or bf. Just wanted to get some info.
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#2
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Re: Open relationships
Yes
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#3
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Re: Open relationships
i dont just want to know if it has ever happened, but want to know how it went and if it worked, if you liked, whatever.
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Re: Open relationships
99% of the time it won't work. Relationships are not meant to be open like that.
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#5
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Re: Open relationships
there was a thread about this in EDGD a little bit ago
http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/sh...Number=9415442 |
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Re: Open relationships
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99% of the time it won't work. Relationships are not meant to be open like that. [/ QUOTE ] yea because its not gods way blah blah blah! |
#7
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Re: Open relationships
i think they don't tend to work because that's not how we're socialized. it's not even (usually) something where we can make a conscious decision, it's more rooted in the patterns of attachment and behavior modeling we encounter from a very young age.
ms thumb and i have discussed many times how humans are probably not exactly 'wired' for monogamy, but i still don't think i could let some other dude plow her. |
#8
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Re: Open relationships
I'm in an open marriage. No problems so far and I don't foresee any coming up.
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Re: Open relationships
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99% of the time it won't work. Relationships are not meant to be open like that. [/ QUOTE ] This is pure BS. Relationships aren't meant to be closed like they are in modern society. We've all been brainwashed into thinking jealous and possessiveness are acceptable behavior though. You're right that it won't usually work though. Most people aren't mature enough to deal with their jealousy sanely. |
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Re: Open relationships
Could you expand a little on this Misst? What is your agreement like? What are the parameters? |
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