I am always the nice guy...help me get my game with the girls back.

madbeetz · #1 02-06-2007, 02:15 AM

Just got out of a long relationship. I now have 0 game. However, I have always had leaks in my game. Girls always found me to just be a great friend etc. I really want to change that.

I am a very sweet, genuine guy around girls. Always very polite, good sense of humor, etc. Girls tend to love me. However, they usually are never "in love" with me. I am always the guy that they can call to listen to their problems, etc. This is not good I take it?

Basically, I want to know what I need to start doing differently. For example, I met this new girl recently. She is really really cool, extremely pretty imo. I have no idea if she is way out of my league or not... I know for sure she flirts with me, but girls flirt with most guys. Help?

Also, am I just being too impatient? Maybe I should just wait for a girl that wants a guy like me? I really think I just end up being one of the "girls" so to speak. Kind of like a gay guy or some [censored] [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] I dont know anymore, I think I need to be more manly or some [censored], I really think ive got some leaks in my game.

Here are some pics of me, and one of the girl I am pursuing. Is she really out of my league? I dont even know what my "league" is, or what league of girls I should be going for.

P.s. i have some confidence issues... suggestions on how to fix them are appreciated.

Mark Collins · #2 02-06-2007, 02:18 AM

nos1nos2?

madbeetz · #3 02-06-2007, 02:20 AM

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i dont get it?

fluffpop62 · #4 02-06-2007, 02:25 AM

i think the girl is realllly cute, and i think that once you're in the friends category, you're stuck there. please read http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

leehrat · #5 02-06-2007, 02:35 AM

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i think the girl is realllly cute, and i think that once you're in the friends category, you're stuck there. please read http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

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this is an interesting read

dchz · #6 02-06-2007, 02:40 AM

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i think the girl is realllly cute, and i think that once you're in the friends category, you're stuck there. please read http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

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this is an interesting read

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that's old news, but an interesting read nonetheless

[censored] · #7 02-06-2007, 02:37 AM

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and i think that once you're in the friends category, you're stuck there.

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nah this isn't true too many examples otherwise but I think it's a good idea for every guy to act as if it is

madbeetz · #8 02-06-2007, 02:37 AM

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i think the girl is realllly cute, and i think that once you're in the friends category, you're stuck there. please read http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

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that was a good read. and, in your opinion, is this girl out of my league? Thats not that great of a pic of me, but that is what I look like...

As a side note. Girls always said I am way better looking than my best guy friend. However, he always ended up banging chicks, it was almost as if he was always forcing himself onto them or some [censored]. Anyways, it got the job done.

Another side note, I am more of a relationship guy then a hit it and quit it guy... I like the security of a relationship etc.

leehrat · #9 02-06-2007, 02:41 AM

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i think the girl is realllly cute, and i think that once you're in the friends category, you're stuck there. please read http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

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that was a good read. and, in your opinion, is this girl out of my league? Thats not that great of a pic of me, but that is what I look like...

As a side note. Girls always said I am way better looking than my best guy friend. However, he always ended up banging chicks, it was almost as if he was always forcing himself onto them or some [censored]. Anyways, it got the job done.

Another side note, I am more of a relationship guy then a hit it and quit it guy... I like the security of a relationship etc.

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yeah the "security of a relationship" thing's probably part of the problem. make sure you make fun of them in subtle ways all the time; not like "[censored] you you ugly beeyotch" but more subtle things like "you have chubby ankles" or something. also, never compliment and try to listen to what they say and parrot it back to them.

Bork · #10 02-06-2007, 02:47 AM

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i think the girl is realllly cute, and i think that once you're in the friends category, you're stuck there. please read http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

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that was a good read. and, in your opinion, is this girl out of my league? Thats not that great of a pic of me, but that is what I look like...

As a side note. Girls always said I am way better looking than my best guy friend. However, he always ended up banging chicks, it was almost as if he was always forcing himself onto them or some [censored]. Anyways, it got the job done.

Another side note, I am more of a relationship guy then a hit it and quit it guy... I like the security of a relationship etc.

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You are interpreting him as 'forcing himself' on women but, he is probably asserting himself and using his big, claws, and fangs.
That turns women on.

Can't worry about stuff like if she is out of your league. If she isn't attracted to you it will quickly be apparent. No big deal.