3/6 Live: Too aggressive on turn?

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Playing in my usual Friday night B&M donkfest. There are one or two decent players though. Villain is one of them and I've played with him a few times and he's a thinking player (and possibly a winning one).

Villain is in BB.
Folded to hero in MP1. Hero calls with QJo
One or two others limp in, SB completes and BB checks.
Flop: A 10 K rainbow (Broadway! woo hoo [img]/images/graemlins/ooo.gif[/img])

Villain checks, Hero bets, folds to Villain who calls.
Turn: 10
Villain bets, Hero raises, Villain 3-bets...

It's here that I meant to just call, but for some reason my hands grab chips and inadvertently cap it. Thinking that I just called, I sit patiently waiting for the dealer to deal the river. When nothing happens, I ask what's going on and realize that Villain is pondering a call. He then mucks.

Did I lose an extra bet or two by capping it? Was it too aggressive? All thoughts on all streets are appreciated.