nut sr8 on monotone flop

[Alobar]

Guy is a total unkown as it's my 3rd hand of the day.

PokerStars $0.50/$1.00 No-Limit Hold'em - 6 players
Hand Converter Tool from DeucesCracked.com
Button: $98.50
SB: $173.80
BB: $76.40
UTG: $100.00
MP: $100.40
CO: $102.60

Preflop: Hero is Button with Q[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img], T[img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img]
UTG folds, MP folds, CO folds, <font color="#FF0000">Hero raises to $4</font>, SB calls $3.50, BB folds.

Flop: ($9.00) A[img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img], K[img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img], J[img]/images/graemlins/spade.gif[/img] <font color="#0000FF">(2 players)</font>
SB checks, <font color="#FF0000">Hero bets $6</font>, <font color="#FF0000">SB raises to $14</font>, Hero calls $8.

Turn: ($37.00) T[img]/images/graemlins/club.gif[/img] <font color="#0000FF">(2 players)</font>
<font color="#FF0000">SB bets $25</font>,

My original plan was to call the flop raise and see what the turn brought, if it was a non spade/board pair I was going to raise big. If it was a spade I was betting if checked to, and folding to any decent sized bet. Is that too much? should I be giving him more credit for c/r me on this board? Or should I just 3 bet the flop all in? I figured that sucks cuz im toast if I get called, and the hands I beat will hopefully fire a blank turn and I get more money when ahead that way. This turn card sucks tho and the fact he bets enough to commit me with the 4 straight out really makes me wanna fold. Im pretty much lost here (and on the flop) so any advice is mui appreciated. thanks

[Victor]

i always see your nl posts and open them with intention of helping you. then i never know what to do. you def find some strange spots.

all i know is im not folding here.

[Bigka79]

i think we need to 3-bet this flop and see...but im a limit donk and am not really sure sorry