[swingdoc]

Good bolding there, micro. You [censored] yourself on this one, OP. You should definitely NOT casually mention that you won't be having thanksgiving with your parents to a girl you've just started dating. I know it seems like an innocuous bit of conversation, but the potential problems are obviously huge. If she likes you at all and is interested in you being a boyfriend, she'll invite you over. Anything else would be "insensitive". This obv wouldn't be a problem if it's just one of your buddies. At this point, you need a graceful way out of this, like cold calling your grandparents and insisting they have you over for thanksgiving. Otherwise go to thanksgiving with this girl. Otherwise you might as well consider the relationship done.