[kkcountry]

i went with - "party at my place tomorrow, need directions?" for a couple reasons:

first, i get to ask if she's coming without directly asking if she's coming. it also lets her know there's going to be a party whether she shows up or not, "are you going to be there?" makes it sound like i need her to come imo.

also, i like to ask questions in my "unsolicited" texts because it's easy to answer and once you get that first reply it's a lot easier to carry on a text conversation