Re: Do you want to have children?
I have been married for alomost 10 years now, and never really wanted kids, but my wife did badly. I wanted to make her happy, so we tried and tried for years. After not getting anywhere we went through IVF. We ended up having triplets. They will be 2 in January. I am 40, and tired all the time. I didnt really want one, but would have been ok with it. Now we have 3. After almost 2 years with them, I cannot imagine my life without them. You say the way you feel now, I did the same. They came along, and everything changed. Not because it HAD to change, but because my feelings changed. If you let it happen, and it does, you may find your self loving it. You can still be a man, and do "man" things, but you will suddenly find that you cannot wait to get home to see the smiling faces, and the little ones running to you with thier arms wide open.....GL with whatever you decide. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]
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