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I disagree with several posters who say that my thinking about this possibility is a bad sign for marriage success. I think it would be more likely to succeed, because marriages that are based only on passion find it difficult to surmount obstacles later - keeping a level head may not be the best thing in terms of "I love you for ever and ever baby [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img]" but probably it's better in the long term. People who dismiss or ignore difficulties are less prepared to deal with them.

Agree or disagree?

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OP,

Realize that most posters in this thread are employing the 'traditional mode of thinking' and thus are at an inherently different level of thought from you. While you may or may not be off base with your specific current ideas, don't allow those on a lower level influence you through their sheer volume.