Re: parenthood and the meaning of life (long & x-posted with BBV4L)
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But this was one of the most incredible experiences of my life. I was and still am bursting with pride. To me, this is what parenthood and life is all about.
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Excellent story. I think you handled it really well, not coming to the "rescue" of your daughter when things weren't going her way. That's a mistake a lot of people make, I've seen it a thousand times having 4 kids of my own, and some times the mistake was made by myself or (more often) my wife.
I empathize with your mindset before and after having kids. Before my son was born, I was pretty irresponsible. Afterwards (but not immediately), you realize you are there for a bigger purpose than to find out why you are here, and watching kids learn and grow to be responsible people is really way more satisfying.
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