Re: Trust.
I get that but, here's the thing. If you are concerned with things of this nature while within a relationship, THEY WILL DEVELOPE. They may develope any way, but worrying about them will ensure they do.
They answer? Well, throw your hat wholehartedly in the ring and don't worry/distrust about these type of thinge, or else you are doomed to fail. You may fail anyway, but the only chance you have at non-failure is to trust.
Also, being 100% comfortable with yourself is important. I understand you are not right now, and THAT'S FINE. It's normal. It will get better. You don't believe it. That's normal. Even when you do believe it, you still don't need to hear it. That's normal. There will come a time when you are ready to trust again, the only thing you can do to make this experiance +EV is to learn from it. Distrust through fear is not learning.
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