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what i would say it boils down to is that women seem not to be aroused visually to the same extent that men are, whether that's brain chemistry or socialization or something else at work. it's not that they aren't aroused by appearances, but it's just not the same as for a dude.

i don't really use the whole numerical rating scale, but to me, when personality has an effect on hotness, it is almost always in an upward direction. if a girl is somewhat physically attractive and has a great personality, it makes me want her more. if she's already hot and is an insufferable bitch, it just makes me want to fk her violently and not call her.