[bernie]

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Here's a slightly different angle on this topic. I have never cheated on a girl when I've been in a relationship, but I have slept with girls who were in relationships themselves. Am I bad?

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To me, it's on the one in the relationship.

I mean, let's say you pick up a chick, take her home and bang her, then find out later she has a b/f or is married. They're the one that cheated. You could be anyone. Though many won't see it that way.

Now, if it's a bud of mine's g/f or wife, that's quite a bit different. You just don't do that to a bud. If a bud did that to me, we're done.

But to answer the OP, yes, cheaters can change. It's called maturity(for the most part). Would I date someone that cheated on me? No. They had their chance on that ride. Could I date someone that cheated on someone else in their past? Yes. Though not blindly.

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