[steel108]

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Steel, thanks for sharing. That certainly opened up my eyes. The sister thing is not something I would expect to convert a cheater. How upset was she? Was it just crying for a few days or was it something much more traumatic than that?

As for the friend/marriage thing that is a tough spot. I honestly don't know what I would do.

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She was with the guy for over a year and a half and he was her first. That should give you hints about her state. Me and my brother wanted to go to his house with a bat and break his knee caps, but my sister said he wasn't worth it and begged us not to. I kind of felt like a hypocrite for being so angry since I was probably a bigger slime ball than he was. He actually told her and she probably wouldn't have ever found out.