[katyseagull]

I've had friends talk to me about their marriages, contemplating divorce. I always feel bad for the kids. I take the kids side in it. If there's any way to stick it out and learn to accommodate the mate, learn to be less selfish, then I think people owe it to the kids to try. Too many parents today are just stubborn and selfish.

If, in the end, parents are really horrible and mean to each other then they should go their own ways. But both should remain in the children's lives. Neither should move away, imo.