[Evan]

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What are you general thoughts on virgins? It seems like some girls think guy's like it if they are but I (and I think a lot of people) think its more of a pain in the ass (pun only partially intended) than anything else. The only really attractive thing about it is that I can be a little more confident I won't end up with herpes.

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I think guys definitely get off on the thought "From now until the day this girl dies, whenever she thinks about the first time she had sex it will be me. She can have sex with a million guys or become a nun, but nothing can change the fact that i was the first."

its like a running a marathon. nobody enjoys it, and its not that fun while your're doing it, but in the end there is a sense of accomplishment.



my friend recently dated a hot virgin and they had sex and since it was his girlfriend, he was like "i never thought i'd say this, but i wish she had had sex before me, because i have to take it supereasy and she's not very good."

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Maybe I'm weird, but the whole "she'll always remember me as her first time" doesn't really do it for me. My thoughts go something like this:

1) She's more likely than average to form a strong emotional attachment to me (never been actually interested in dating or having a real relationship with either of my two)
2) She's probably not going to be very good (true one time, not true another time)
3) This could be messy (not true either time)


Things like knowing she's clean and having that first time memory rank significantly lower for me. I'm kind of curious how I'd feel about it if it were a girl I was dating or was interested in dating. I definitely understand where your friend is coming from.