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Old 10-09-2007, 12:44 AM
tarheeljks tarheeljks is offline
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Default Re: Emotional Affairs

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- your significant other goes out for a private lunch with the same guy (girl) from work every week, or
- your significant other talks on the internet with some strange guy (or girl)?

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lunch every day seems a bit much, so i would probably being lying if i said the first one wouldn't bother me at all. however, i don't think i would lose sleep over it worrying about whether she was cheating on me.

in the second scenario it depends on the context of the internet chatting. is it web forum/message board, something like aim/icq/msn?

in the end i think that even if someone feels like they need multiple outlets, they should be ready and willing to set them aside if it truly makes their significant other uncomfortable.
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