[inishowen]

Thanks all. I did have a close relationship with her father, we had to of played at least 50 rounds of golf together. I've just never spoken to anyone who is terminal, guess it's time to grow up a little in that regard. As far as the ex goes, she was always very supportive of me, part of me feels like I owe her. I'm going to take the idea of contacting him directly first, if she reaches out to me I'd definitely help any way I could. Thanks again.