[It's Brandt]

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It also sounds like OP is sitting around waiting for her 'to see the light' and return home and is now trying to convince himself that she was disturbed and made these decisions at least partly unconsciously.

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Yeah, this is pretty much what I was thinking regarding all this addiction and "chemically altered brain" talk.

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Its understandable that you're really [censored] up right now. I think if you go back and read all of these posts in a year you'll just shake your head.

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QFT!