[takingcontrol]

am I the only one for raising preflop ? usually you get one, at most two callers, then you can generally take it down with a cbet providing they're not loose maniacs, which you would have noticed in the 3 orbits so far.
also sets in unraised pots kinda suck, you want action ACTION ACCTTIIOOOONNNNNNNNNNNNN, which is another argument for raising it up, if one of your callers hits a crappy top pair type hand you can generally get at least half his stack before he realises what time it is.
the same thing happened to me when I last took a shot at 100nl, it's just poker and generally it's the price of playing too passively when you feel things arent going your way. take a break and hang in there ^_^.