[NickMPK]

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I can't believe the criticism i am getting from you people. I should be praised rather than insulted. I should be praised for being responsible for my age. I don't want to end up like the countless joes that post in this forum "my girlfriend has bad news" while they add that they work an average job with an average wage and this development means a likely life of poverty.

I don't know what is wrong with wanting to avoid accidents like that. I am being responsible in the way that I acknowledge that I can't support a kid now, nor would I for 8 or so years.

There is more to this of course. I'm good looking and I'm a james bond type can't have just 1 gf, I ask girls out even when having a girlfriend. My luck is what worries me the most I know something as bad as this scenario would happen to me.

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How are you being "responsible" by making a decision that could potentially ruin the rest of your life just so things will be a little easier for you right now?

Also, you are being paranoid. I have never seen the sort of post you are describing. And with respect to women secretly thwarting birth control: unless you are about to declare for the NBA or NFL draft, no one want to have your baby that badly.