[MelchyBeau]

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Ok I would assume that my problem is a problem exactly opposite of most 2+2ers, and it stems from the fact that I do not enjoy sex. While I do at times wish to have some sort of romantic experience, I understand this is pretty much impossible due to the fact that women who would want a sexless relationship are most likely strong christians and I am an athiest.




Melchy,

I'm going to just take your word for it that you don't like sex and go from there. I mean, some people would argue that you should try again with a different girl but I get the feeling you really don't want to hear that. If I'm wrong, tell me.

About the Christian thing, uh I don't think it's a secret that plenty of Christian girls like sex

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I've heard plenty of people tell me that I should try it again. I must be honest with you, it isn't like I was only with one woman, and although I have never engaged in coitus while in a relationship, I still don't feel that I will enjoy it then. In fact one woman suggested I find a cougar and that way I have an experienced woman teach me, and though while I don't think I'd have too much trouble getting laid (though most likely by a woman who OOT would consider not hot, but what does OOT know) I feel getting a cougar would be beyond my abilities.

What I meant by strong christian was someone who holds the belief that you must avoid all sexual contact until marriage and other beliefs. I apologize if I offended you.

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Well welcome to our world Melchy, where guys hit on us and we are supposed to gently but directly set them straight. It's not easy, is it? I'm the wimpy girl who doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings so I tend to lead them on rather than let them down. It's a disaster.


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No it is not easy, and I've had a woman directly ask me out, that wasn't so bad, but the women who beat around the bush more or less make it very difficult to turn down.

There is one more difference. I have had my junk grabbed in public, and when I called her a stupid whore for doing so, and yes I understand these words are harsh. I was yelled at for making her cry. Remember folks, society doesn't think guys can be sexually assaulted or harassed.

Honestly I have no charm or secret charisma. And these events do not occur every day, but I believe it is because I ignore thier sexuality. I suffer from mega-depression and generally a complete lack of confidence in everything I do, so yes this shouldn't happen at all. Heh, you know probably if I became interested in them, they'd stop.

thanks for the advice though