[private joker]

The river doesn't change much about the hand. If your straight wasn't good, then obviously it still isn't good (and you were worried enough about it to just call the turn). If your straight was good vs. some sort of set/2pair, then the river could have hurt you but passive/weak live female players don't tend to raise the turn here without a straight or flush.

I'd tend to rate your chances in this hand pretty low, and I think c/c or c/f could be argued. c/c would only be for a chop at best, so I think the optimal play is c/f but it's read-based and you kind of have to be there to know for sure. The thing is, live players just do not tend to raise big streets on a monotone board without a flush. You missed on the river, and unless she can get tricky you're dead.