Re: Emotional Affairs
Most sober, attached females (or males, for that matter) aren't going to go to Barnes and Noble and bang the first guy they strike up a conversation with. There has to be an emotional attachment first.
Emotional attachments (affairs) aren't harmful in and of themselves. It's the fact that they open the door for a physical affair later. The relationship simply progresses over time.
Without an emotional affair, the physical affair rarely happens.
Can you have an emotional attachment to someone other than your mate? Sure. Do you have to be on guard and careful where it could lead? Absolutely.
Yes, my wife having an emotional attachment to another man would bother me greatly. Only because she may get caught in a vulnerable moment.
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