[Rush]

I realize pics are mandatory in OOT so I'll work on that...

As for stalkerish - it's pretty much impossible not to come off as stalkerish when persuing some chick in this scenario. The goal is to minimize it which I'm trying to do. If I didn't add her to IM this week then I lost my chance, as I might as well grow a handlebar stache and drive a white van to work if I do it sometime in the future.

The way I looked at it was I either do something this week (at the expense of it not being the ideal approach) or my opportunity is gone for good.

And yeah, if she doesn't come by tomorrow then I agree, it's probably done. But if she does then this thread might get more interesting.