Irie,
Having three days in NYC and $$$ to go to three sweet meals is pretty much the opposite of a dilemma.
Check
New York things to do and
High-End Dining threads for ideas.
Post here w/ questions on anything that sounds interesting to you.
OpenTable is a great place to get ideas. Just put in your time, search, and order by price (or filter by cuisine).
The only one I've been to that you mention is Bond Street - very good place. A couple of friends echoed what was said above about Spice Market - good stuff, but nothing to blow you away.