[tarheeljks]

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Your right tarheels, the letter does not deliver on the intro's promise. Face to face, I can be way more honest and rude, but here, I intend to be gentle. I am not actually mad, just confused. I think that the letter is firm enough that she would get the point.

I wonder if her "friend" is some dude?

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i think being gentle is a good idea. i think the email is fine overall but that you get too defensive at the end.

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. . . And yes, I am starting to feel that way as well.

This has all been on my mind for the past week. If you don't e-mail me back, I will take that as a cut line. I won't say that I don't care, but I have let closer people go.

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granted idk how long you've been trying to maintain contact w/little effort on her part. saying something like, but the signals here are very mixed.