Ok, bbv4l i am frustrated.
So here's the stroy. Friend and myself went out the other evening and on our way we stopped over at the familiy where he dates a girl for over 1 year. Anyway, we get into the house and there is this really cute girl.
They are El Salvadorian fwiw, and from what i hear, i look like a tall euro/scandinavian. So obv a big cultural shock. lol.
So anyway, they seemed to be a very very strict and old school family. My friend talked to her on the phone and she couldnt stop talking how cute this euro guy was (obv huge brag, cuz he had her on speaker). But my friend told me that this family is very complicated. He is Columbian, but the El Salvadorian seemed to be crazier...
So the next day my friend and i met her with some other people at their church (no flames pls that is the fking only way to see her, sicko, i know
. We came late, but i could talk to her a few sentences and she's so unbelievable sweet and smart and not like u think a typical church girl in usa would be. So she invited us over to her house (next brag), but then all of the sudden she was like away in some room and her parents just talked to my friend and me. After that evening i was like WTF to him, but he said their parents were checking me out (OMGOMGOGMOGMGOGMOGM!!!!), but they approved me (next brag).
Unfortunately a 24 year old with a kid (i am 20 fwiw) liked me pretty much, and she made it pretty obv. I didnt like her at all, she had a kid and she wasnt my type anyway.
Now the big beat: I wanted to give her (the 16year old cutie) a call... but my friend called her (these el sal. are...u know,,,,nutty!!!) and she tells him like all of the sudden that Rebecca (the 24 with kid grrr) had a crush, which means (she didnt say that, but its in their culture that way) that she wont mess with me, cuz she dont wants to mess with her Aunt (=Rebecca). I called her afterwards and all of the sudden she can't meet cuz she has this guy next to her (OOOOOOBVIOUS LIE...like soooo obv...).
Ok, anyway, what should i do?
1) easiest way is to tell i dont like rebecca at all. But that would be fking offending and i dunno how to do that.
2) She is 16, just move on
3) Gimme your solution...
To be honest, i didnt know what was happening cuz its not like I feel like an Alpha male or anything. So dont take that thread as a brag.
I feel terrible cuz i dont know whats going on in this crazy culture. Like if she said, she didnt like me or anything, it would be totally fine. Its not like much happened or anything....
ok,...flame away...
Oh, i hate "thread worthless witout pics",...so here u go. On her left is her cousin. Dont have better pics..sry...
