Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
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So her grandfather died after alot of hospitalizations, and she definatley saw it coming and so did her family but she isn't taking it well. I have to drive awhile and meet her family, which i've never done, and I really don't want to go. We aren't very serious. Is it -ev to just say "I don't want to go." and be honest?
I don't think lying is a good line... and I wouldn't expect her to attend a wake for my family and I doubt I would even invite her unless she knew the family member.
need help =-0
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If you don't want to break up, go. If you do, then be honest, then break up with her in a couple of weeks.
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What if I don't want to break up and I don't want to go?
To be honest if she dumps me because of this, then she coudn't think too much of me the first place.
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You are failing to see this from her point of view. She clearly thinks that you should be there to support her.
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