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I've heard countless times from girls "I don't think xyz is hot because he/she is an a-hole."

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I don't think it is much different for either gender, it is just that women don't admit that they find as*holes attractive whereas men don't care.

Maybe some of this has to do w/ social perception, women want to be thought of as pursued by the kind and charming man but we all know that women get laid by both them and the as*hole of equal attractiveness. Many encounters are only surface level but some women are very self-conscious about how they are perceived. This is just a thought.