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KK,

have you had similar experiences with other boys, which may have lead you to react the way you did?

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Interestingly enough,

My sophomore year, I had met this girl through a friend, and we ended up having a class together, so we exchanged IMs. One night, I had heard she was going to this dance marathon, and I was considering taking my gf at the time there. I called the girl's cell phone to ask her about the marathon. A guy answered and pretty much threatened me. So that was weird enough, but I was just on my computer and I noticed she had come back from idle, so IM'd her to ask her what it was all about, and she blocked me. Pissed off, I got on another name (bad idea?) and went off on her. She flipped out and called me a stalker and whatnot. I talked to our mutual friend a day or so later and he claimed that she had had bad experiences with "true" stalkers, hence her overdefensiveness.

I'm not saying this is the case here, but it just seems like a relevant anecdote.