Hi and welcome. There are a few of us who are female and slightly older than the site demographic. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]
I agree with Durron's recommendations.
I'd recommend you read and post poker strategy in the
Full Ring forum.
For general chit chat, off topic, community type posts, you might enjoy
The Lounge.
Of course there are many sub forums to choose from on the
Main Page. Look around, explore, read a lot to get a feel for the site and you might find other forums that interest you.