[mickeyzee]

In my home games, some of my buddies make friendly comments like "just lay it down" when they know they have me beat. I probably push and pull one of those numbers. If he perceives you as a nice guy, he'll fold. If he thinks you're malicious, he'll call. He saved you money when you were beat, but he's not going to return the money you invested postflop, so you shouldn't feel the need to return it to him especially since he showed you the card after he reraised. You save the rest of my stack, I'll save the rest of yours!