Re: Love a girl but there is a dilemma
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Since you've clarified that it's herpes - if you use a condom only when she has a visible outbreak, your chances of contracting it would actually be very low.
But even if they weren't, it's just not that big a deal. If it's a serious relationship I say just don't worry about it. I'd live with contracting herpes in a long-term relationship, and certainly in a marriage - it's better than the alternatives.
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Yeah I tend to agree. I think finding a mate that stimulates you both physically and intellectually is worth the price of any treatable disease.
Alternative is lonliness.
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I don't disagree. As to whether I'd make the same decision, well. It depends on the woman, really.
But if you love her enough to take those kinds of risks, I can't imagine that'd be a love that'd disintegrate in a few years, so.
Good luck.
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