[tsearcher]

Everyone reacts differently to these situations, but there are some little things you can do that are somewhat universal.

Bring over some food. When someone is grieving it's tough to do the little things like shopping, cooking or even bothering to eat. So coming over with some food and dining with her will make a difference.

Keep her active. You don't have to force her to do things she doesn't want to do, but keep up with the suggestions and gentle prodding.

Have her spend some time with little kids that don't know what happened. Tell some jokes, goof around a little now and then. Some laughter can be great therapy.

She'll want to talk about her brother and what happened, listen to what she has to say.