[Check_The_Nuts]

turn sucks because your deep. In your description you didn't address the key part of how villian plays. Does he tend to call down with his TPNK hands or does he raise and play for stacks, even if his kicker is weak?

I would only ever 3bet the flop for value. As in if I 3bet I wouldn't even think of folding when/if he pushes. If he doesn't raise very often on the flop I like flat calling and checking the turn.

The fact the 9 came is bad. But to say you have to 3bet the flop is results oriented that the 9 paired. Thats basically the worst card in the deck for your hand.