[Mitch Evans]

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"2.
The focus of the typing cursor drives me crazy. Hate that fact that it changes when another table prompts u for action. This means that if I am typing somewhere else (e.g notes) and play 4 tables it is hard too finish the note typing with out getting half of the information in the chat box."

seriously

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Tools>Options>General>(uncheck)Bring to front when action is required

This will stop stealing the focus of the cursor, but it will also stop any table popping up on top of the desktop, so you need to keep an eye on your tables to prevent from timing out.