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if she gives you an ultimatum you have a decision to make. if she's someone you plan on making your wife, examine your priorities. if your own needs/wants are more important to your fulfillment than she is, then it eventually wasn't going to work anyway. plus, she might surprise you.

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It works both ways. If she gives pope an ultimatum then it shows that her petty prejudices are more important to her than he is, and it wasn't going to work anyway.

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This isn't really how things work man. Sometimes people are confused and need time to sort it out. We all have flaws and any lasting relationship with have to overcome challenges and both will need to compromise.