[AlexM]

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What if I don't want to break up and I don't want to go?

To be honest if she dumps me because of this, then she coudn't think too much of me the first place.

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The single biggest thing most women want in a man is someone she knows can support her when she's emotionally distressed. You have failed to provide this at a time when she needed it the most. From her point of view, you have basically said "I don't care about you." Now, women are to some extent used to this from men, so you might get away with it, at least for a while, but overall it's really bad to consistantly do this kind of thing.

The guy version would be like discovering that your GF will never ever give you head or do it doggie style. As much as you might like the girl, it might well be a deal breaker.

Seriously, if you want to pursue this relationship, you really have to go.