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Old 11-21-2007, 08:31 AM
Craggoo Craggoo is offline
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Default Re: People that harass and berate

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Yes I believe you are being unreasonable. Policing the chat just makes you come off as a douche. The internet preys on your sensitivity and they win because you actually spend the energy in trying to report them. It's a waste of time, people are not going to change what they type especially if it is not harshly regulated. a warning from being reported is not enough reinforcement to change behavior. At the B&M, you can get thrown out if you keep it up.

Comparing online chat and B&M is just outright silly. It is not the same. poker sites are purely visual, you can turn off chat and play just as fine. In B&M you have to experience it whether you like it not. You have to deal with the audio expect of B&M; i cant drown it out with music because I would not be able to hear important info e.g checks, raises. Not to mention it slows down the game. Online, action moves on regardless of chat.

Honestly, it's merely sticks and stones. Words should never hurt you, especially when it comes from the interweb. since it does in your case, you need to develop some skin.

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I have actually played live a ton and have put up with a LOT of crap from people. Constant verbal harassment that comes just short of being thrown out of the casino. I've been threatened at my cardroom by someone with a massive ego and as he put it "isnt afraid to go back to prison".

As for the first part you wrote, I dont feel a need to "police" the table. If someone says something that is outright rude i'll ask them kindly if they have nothing good to say then dont say anything at all. Either they usually stop (not common) or come out with a whole barrage of other insults.

You're right, a warning wont stop them from continuing their ways. But eventually, if they dont change their ways they will lose their chat then mission accomplished right?

Spending 1 minute writing 1 paragraph to support takes as much energy as walking to my fridge. If this is really a reason to let people harass the table for hours then I think you have more serious issues then I supposedly have.
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