[tarheeljks]

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I understand the whole gazing into the eyes and all that sweet stuff, but something about pleasing your partner - a couple dozen times - while receiving no obvious gratification yourself other than her receipt of said pleasure is hot to me.

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i agree and want to add that i think you have to distinguish b/t making love and [censored] when asking this question.

edit: i still consider sex in general to be more intimate, but i'm not the type of guy boning randoms every week.